28. Should we judge other at first sight?

A long time ago

Sometimes

I have a feeling that

I like or dislike someone

At the first sight

 And some times

 I don’t know why

It’s just my feeling, my emotions

Or something likes that !

I guess

May be you’re like me too

Specially

When I meet  a strange person

My feeling can be like or dislike them

Because of many reasons or no reason

And you know what

will I do next things

I will enjoy a gossipy group

Who have common idea with me

We will have negative gossip ,

Negative thoughts, bad comments

 about them

If we don’t like them

And we will have a little communication with them

So stupid !

In contract

When I like them

Have positive thought about them

 I will give a nice word and compliment

It means

They are apples in our eyes

I still remmember that

When I was at Academy of Finance

My major is Financial Corporation

At the second year of university

I joined  a “I love Finance’ Club

At the first meeting in club

I have a feeling that

I hate that girl

She is one year older than me

Because she has a cool face

And misunderstanding behavior

Unfortunately

I was divided into her group

She is my group leader

Oh God!

What the hell with me!

It made me be uncomfortable

And want to leave group

 because of my passion

and my responsibility 

I couldn’t give up

So when I worked with her

I felt we have much in common

And we have a good conection

In our job

Over time

I know that

She comes from my hometown

She helped me many things

I felt closely to her

One time

We had to go other province

To collect data about economic informations

We had to visit each family owned business

To get real and raw data

Because we had to work hard

We were sick together

 But she always looked after me carefully

And when I started doing gruaduation thesis

She introduced me to her company

Where she was working

Let’s me do my internship

And guided me how to have good result

I’m grateful to her for every thing

So now

I want to say that

We shouldn’t judge people

At the first sight

Every one coming to our lives

Is for a reason

They become a good or bad person

Is depending our though and our believe.

Thank you !

27. Give someone responsibility, they will do their best by Sean from Hai Phong

 I will tell you about my story

When I wasstudying in high school,

And I was a working manager in my class

One time

My class must clean our learning room

Because the next day

We will have an important event

When all of my friends were working

I and some friends escaped from my class

And we played football in the back yard

My teacher caught us playing football

Then he was mad at me

So I was removed

from working manager position.

And a few days later,

I met him and sorry about it

After talking

Every thing was ok

And I got back my job.

From this time,

I never delay my job any more

And I realize an important thing is

When people give you responsibility and a work

We must do it as perfect as you can.

That was the most stupid thing

I did when I was in high school.

Have you ever though that

You will be an importan person in a group

Or an importan person with your friend?

It means they totally believe you!

Why they not choose an other one,

Why they choose you?

You should have question in mind

And think about it

as much as you can

When you agree with them

to help them.

Do it by all of your ability

And finish it in the shortest time

as you can

And one more importan thing is

You should look at your ability first

Then you can accept their suggestion

to help them doing something.

If  you can not help

 you shouldn’t agree

Never make anybody dissapointed about you

Now, I’m studying at Hama

I was assigned to Kitchen team

With 4 others

Our responsibility is cooking food

3 meals per day for the whole family

We have to wake up at 5:30

and preparing for breakfast

I set up the tables

Drying and arranging cooking unilities

To support my team

We are happy when our family

Have good meals, ontime and healthy

Although I am always the last person

Enjoy meal

We’ve done very good work so far

And still have one month to go

I’ve learnt one important lesson

from this work

That’s giving someone a resposibility

And they will do their best.

Thank you!

aɪ wɪl tɛl juː əˈbaʊt maɪ ˈstɔːri 
wɛn aɪ wasstudying ɪn haɪ skuːl, 
ænd aɪ wɒz ə ˈwɜːkɪŋ ˈmænɪʤər ɪn maɪ klɑːs 

wʌn taɪm 
maɪ klɑːs mʌst kliːn ˈaʊə ˈlɜːnɪŋ ruːm 
bɪˈkɒz ðə nɛkst deɪ 
wiː wɪl hæv ən ɪmˈpɔːtənt ɪˈvɛnt  

wɛn ɔːl ɒv maɪ frɛndz wɜː ˈwɜːkɪŋ 
aɪ ænd sʌm frɛndz ɪsˈkeɪpt frɒm maɪ klɑːs  
ænd wiː pleɪd ˈfʊtbɔːl ɪn ðə bæk jɑːd  
maɪ ˈtiːʧə kɔːt ʌs ˈpleɪɪŋ ˈfʊtbɔːl 

ðɛn hiː wɒz mæd æt miː  
səʊ aɪ wɒz rɪˈmuːvd  
frɒm ˈwɜːkɪŋ ˈmænɪʤə pəˈzɪʃən. 

ænd ə fjuː deɪz ˈleɪtə, 
aɪ mɛt hɪm ænd ˈsɒri əˈbaʊt ɪt 
ˈɑːftə ˈtɔːkɪŋ 
ˈɛvri θɪŋ wɒz ˈəʊˈkeɪ 
ænd aɪ gɒt bæk maɪ ʤɒb. 

frɒm ðɪs taɪm, 
aɪ ˈnɛvə dɪˈleɪ maɪ ʤɒb ˈɛni mɔː 
ænd aɪ ˈrɪəlaɪz ən ɪmˈpɔːtənt θɪŋ ɪz 
wɛn ˈpiːpl gɪv juː rɪsˌpɒnsəˈbɪlɪti ænd ə wɜːk 
wiː mʌst duː ɪt æz ˈpɜːfɪkt æz juː kæn. 

ðæt wɒz ðə məʊst ˈstjuːpɪd θɪŋ 
aɪ dɪd wɛn aɪ wɒz ɪn haɪ skuːl. 

hæv juː ˈɛvə ðəʊ ðæt  
juː wɪl biː ən importan ˈpɜːsn ɪn ə gruːp 
ɔːr ən importan ˈpɜːsn wɪð jɔː frɛnd? 
ɪt miːnz ðeɪ ˈtəʊtli bɪˈliːv juː! 

waɪ ðeɪ nɒt ʧuːz ən ˈʌðə wʌn, 
waɪ ðeɪ ʧuːz juː? 
juː ʃʊd hæv ˈkwɛsʧən ɪn maɪnd 
ænd θɪŋk əˈbaʊt ɪt 
æz mʌʧ æz juː kæn  

wɛn juː əˈgriː wɪð ðɛm  
tuː hɛlp ðɛm. 
duː ɪt baɪ ɔːl ɒv jɔːr əˈbɪlɪti 
ænd ˈfɪnɪʃ ɪt ɪn ðə ˈʃɔːtɪst taɪm  
æz juː kæn 

ænd wʌn mɔː importan θɪŋ ɪz  
juː ʃʊd lʊk æt jɔːr əˈbɪlɪti fɜːst 
ðɛn juː kæn əkˈsɛpt ðeə səˈʤɛsʧən 
tuː hɛlp ðɛm ˈdu(ː)ɪŋ ˈsʌmθɪŋ. 
ɪf juː kæn nɒt hɛlp 
juː ʃʊdnt əˈgriː 
ˈnɛvə meɪk ˈɛnɪˌbɒdi dissapointed əˈbaʊt juː  

naʊ, aɪm ˈstʌdiɪŋ æt Hama 
aɪ wɒz əˈsaɪnd tuː ˈkɪʧɪn tiːm 
wɪð 4 ˈʌðəz 
ˈaʊə rɪsˌpɒnsəˈbɪlɪti ɪz ˈkʊkɪŋ fuːd 
3 miːlz pɜː deɪ fɔː ðə həʊl ˈfæmɪli 

wiː hæv tuː weɪk ʌp æt 5:30 
ænd prɪˈpeərɪŋ fɔː ˈbrɛkfəst 
aɪ sɛt ʌp ðə ˈteɪblz 
ˈdraɪɪŋ ænd əˈreɪnʤɪŋ ˈkʊkɪŋ unilities 
tuː səˈpɔːt maɪ tiːm 

wiː ɑː ˈhæpi wɛn ˈaʊə ˈfæmɪli 
hæv gʊd miːlz, ontime ænd ˈhɛlθi 
ɔːlˈðəʊ aɪ æm ˈɔːlweɪz ðə lɑːst ˈpɜːsn 
ɪnˈʤɔɪ miːl 

wiːv dʌn ˈvɛri gʊd wɜːk səʊ fɑː 
ænd stɪl hæv wʌn mʌnθ tuː gəʊ 
aɪv lɜːnt wʌn ɪmˈpɔːtənt ˈlɛsn  
frɒm ðɪs wɜːk 
ðæts ˈgɪvɪŋ ˈsʌmwʌn ə resposibility 
ænd ðeɪ wɪl duː ðeə bɛst. 
θæŋk juː! 

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